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My wife and I still enjoy a lot of romance, all couples should too – Adeboye

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There is nothing sweeter than romance in marriage and every couple must not only enjoy it, but make it a bedrock in their relationships, Enoch Adeboye, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), beseeched on Friday.

Adeboye, a septuagenarian, who has been married for almost 60 years, having married Folu Adeboye, his heartrob on 17 December 1967, enjoined Christian couples never to allow spiritual responsibilities to replace conjugal duties to each other.

The popular cleric, used his X handle to make the clarification about the importance of keeping the light of love aflame, wrote in a lengthy post, that he still shared a lot of romance with his wife, showering her with love and pet names whenever they were alone.

Maintaining that “anointing does not reduce romance,” he wrote: “The fact that you are a Christian does not in any way take romance out of your marriage. Marriage is the only institution where romance and intimacy is allowed between a man and a woman.

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“Some pastors hardly go on dates with their spouses because they consider such a romantic activity as a distraction from their focus on spiritual matters. Some of them don’t even play with their spouses anymore.

“Beloved, the anointing does not reduce the need for romance in marriage. Isaac was an anointed man of God and a successful businessman, yet in Genesis 26:8, the Bible says he was being romantic with his wife: And it came to pass, when he had been there a long time, that Abimelech king of the Philistines looked out at a window, and saw, and, behold, Isaac was sporting with Rebekah his wife.

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“Don’t become too rigid in your marriage; don’t have more fun elsewhere without your spouse. Make the times that you and your spouse spend together so much fun that you are always looking forward to seeing each other again.

“If you are married, remember how you used to talk for long hours with your spouse before you got married and had children; revive that relationship again. Your spouse is still the same fellow you were very fond of, and the things you loved in him or her are still there. Don’t let all the cares of this life distract you from the gems in your spouse.

“Once in a while, compose a poem for your spouse and read it to him or her in a romantic setting. Spice things up with pleasant surprises every now and then. Write a note and put it in his or her bag so that when they get to the office and open their bag, they will see the note and smile. Have a pet name that you call each other behind closed doors.

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“Up until today, there is a pet name my wife calls me when we are alone. I equally have a pet name that I call her, and every time I call her by that name, she cannot but smile at me lovingly. When we are alone, we are lovers, not Daddy G.O and Mummy G.O.

“Your marriage can be like heaven on earth if you and your spouse are deliberate about remaining the lovebirds that you were when you first got married. Don’t let the romance die. KEY POINT One of the ways to ensure that your marriage remains like heaven on earth is to keep the romance alive.”

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I’m ready to face the bullet – Utomi *Weak, horrible politicians, killing Nigeria

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I’m willing to go to the firing squad if it will stop the mess in Nigeria. I assure you, I’m willing to do that,” were the words with which Pat Utomi, Nigeria’s foremost political economist stretched the extent of his desire to help Nigeria recover itself from the current parlous situation it has found itself in recent years.

A guest of Politics Today, a current affairs programme on Channels Television, Utomi, told his host, on Wednesday that he was doing everything, including bringing together a coalition of Nigerians in the Diasporas to help in the task of redeeming the country today.

Arguing that Nigeria still had one of the highest human and natural resources in the world, he said Nigeria’s problem remained that of poor leadership, adding for instance that instead of harnessing potentials of the diversity of the country, those on the driving seat, were more interested in dividing the country.

Hear him: “We have converted what we have as our greatest strength into our weakness, which is our diversity. You take that diversity and look at our selling culture from different parts of Nigeria, what that means. Nigeria has a huge strength in its diversity, but weak, horrible politicians have chosen to exploit it in a manner where emotions have trumped reasons and the gap between we and them is widening everyday.

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“If you look at the American melting pot, why don’t they say, you’re a Korean, you’re a Vietnamese, you’re an Italian-American, you’re Irish-American? Because those who led America, its founding fathers, had such great vision, and wrote one of the greatest constitutions in human history and built institutions that allowed that melting pot culture to enable America become almost the greatest people on the planet. I think leadership can help to turn this around.

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Dwelling on how poor leadership had aided in stunting Nigeria’s development, Utomi, who claimed to have been integrated into national politics at the age of 27, because of how passionate and vocal he became over national issues even at that young age, blamed Nigerian youths for not expressing the same zeal in taking their country back.

Instead, he accused them of complicity, by becoming complacent while the older generation remained at the driving seat of national affairs and controlling their emotions at the same time, adding that the value system must change in which the future must matter to people than the immediate gains.

Hear him: “Ultimately, values shape human progress. When we have values and people of character and commitment to service are in positions of public authority, our country will turn around. We have the ingredients, the human capital that it takes to show the way.”

“The biggest challenge we have is that culture is in collapse in Nigeria, values shape human progress. How do we get a values revolution? Institutions are critical for human progress if we can commit to building stronger institutions that push back on people who do not do right and the rule of law is fully in place.

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“Look at our judiciary, it is a laughing stock – no country can make real progress without a judiciary that you can rely on. Look at our other institutions whether it is INEC or others, they are weak.

“How do we ensure that we have strong institutions and that we have values that really ensure that character matters and that people of character can show a light? We can do it, I am absolutely confident because I have seen it happen in human history.”

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Corruption cancer: How we recovered N13billion in September alone – ICPC

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“Over the past year, the ICPC has made significant progress in discharging its mandate; for example, we recovered over ₦13 billion in diverted public funds in September 2024 alone. This is just one of the many ways we have worked tirelessly to fulfil our mandate.”

These were the words with which Musa Aliyu, Chairman of the Independent Corrupt Practices and Other Related Offences Commission (ICPC), summed up the immensity of the work the anti-graft agency has been doing in the country towards dealing with official graft in the Nigerian system.

Though he was not definite on those involved in the various scams from which the moneys were recovered from Aliyu, who made the disclosure during the launch of the commission’s 2024-2028 strategic action plan in Abuja on Wednesday, emphasised that the feat resulted from the relentlessness of the agency towards fulfilling its mandate.

It was also a day the ICPC boss disclosed the body’s new focus on digitalising its operations, which he said will position it as a leader in leveraging technology to combat corruption, adding: “We are also embarking on ICT reforms that will digitalise our operations and enable more efficient investigations, case management, and internal processes.

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“This transformation will position the Commission as a leader in leveraging technology to combat corruption, keeping us one step ahead of criminal activities in the digital age. The commission is developing a specialised curriculum aimed at enhancing the enforcement capacity of its personnel.

“This initiative equips our officers with the skills and expertise needed to address the complexities of corruption cases with the highest standards of professionalism and efficiency.

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“Additionally, we are decentralising the anti-corruption effort by empowering state governments through the mobilisation of State Attorneys General. This approach ensures that state governments are equipped with the tools, knowledge, and resources necessary to effectively combat corruption at the local level.

“Because we believe prevention is better than cure, we have intensified efforts to identify institutional and administrative vulnerabilities through System Studies and Corruption Risk Assessments. We have also continued to engage with the Anti-Corruption and Transparency Units (ACTUs) in Ministries, Departments, and Agencies (MDAs), reinforcing our grassroots monitoring mechanisms.”

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TRAGEDY: Another man takes his life over hardship in Nigeria *Police dig in

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Operatives of the Ogun State Police Command are combing around to ascertain whether Abayomi Oshoke, a 45-year-old, a resident of Mango Oke-Ata, actually took his own life because he could no longer continue with the present hardship in Nigeria or there are other factors to it.

This was after confirming the incident, which reportedly took place around 6:00am on September in the suburb of Abeokuta, the state capital, through Omolola Odutola, the command’s spokesman, on Tuesday.

Odutola, who confirmed that the deceased consumed an insecticide to end it all due to the hardship he was allegedly facing, explained that his sister, identified as Funmilayo, reported the incident to the Lafenwa Police Division after discovering her brother’s lifeless body in his room, with a bottle of insecticide found beside him.

She said: “A friend of the deceased visited his home and asked to see him. Upon entering the room, he discovered the victim’s body on the floor and raised the alarm after finding that the victim had ingested a mixture of insecticide and herbal concoction.

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“He left a note written in Yoruba language, explaining the reasons behind his decision. In the note, he expressed frustration with his life and stated that he felt he had no choice but to end it. A discreet investigation is currently underway.”

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